We all have things that ties us to the cares of this world. For some of us, its our work, and it defines everything that we are. For others, its
their family, it is the end all be all in what they do. Yet for others, it is watching pornography, and with or without shame, it is on their minds every waking moment of the day and therefore a part of who they are.
Whatever that is, from the perspective of the kingdom, it is Your weakness.